Transpersonal Avenues

Do You See What I See ? --Bidding past 'adieu' is easier over time

2011-12-15T16:56:00.003-05:00

The one I shared a decade with is profoundly standing on his word to walk away and never look back . . . Kudos as it has been more than a year and no connection in this dimension of physical reality on his part.

So on with my life since then. A break-through in cognitive consciousness and spiritual over-hauling came through in small short sentences during lapses into a dream-state where I can figure things out and live life the way I am supposed to, not by what is demanded or even mandated by my ego. I put those short sentences, sometimes even just a series of words, together and found a dissertation to myself, written by myself, in another life, or so it seems to help make time the essence of healing.

I discovered that I really did not bid the past adieu or goodbye as I still holds part of it, quite precious and dear and the secrets I hold, un-told, are what makes me who I am today.

If you found out that honestly loving yourself for who and what you are is so much harder than loving someone else, how would you feel ?

I suppose with new-found friends, hobbies, inner circuits that need tweaking can only be achieved when you pay attention, that being alone without a partner affords you the opportunity. Instead of embracing the alone-ness, we fear the lonliness . . . This scenario of lonliness defined by a transpersonal foundation can only mean when we feel like this it is because our reserve fuel pumps of good tidings for ourselves, has been run dry by the many, many people we helped throughout the year.

The act of kindness was put forth so effortlessly for others that by the time we needed reserves for us to feel good about something, those were gone. It is not wrong to be selfish (keeping all your reserves for you) as long as your self-servings needs to keep the resources and reserves by manipulation and deceipt, don't rob another person of the absolute full potential to meet joy and good tidings within themself !

In my acts of kindness, I give what I can so I still have some left over for me and in my dreams they and he are appreciative so what I see there I can still hold precious seeing them, sensing who they really are without their ego-ic shackles holding them down.

Here is to "Seeing you for who you really are in your dreams" . . . till next time this is,erica~ the enlightenment advisor

P.S. If you cannot make it into your dreamstate due to insomnia, please don't hesitate to research the effects of kava-kava and experiment with your body, this wonderful natural sleep-aid can deliver.

R U really going to say 'adieu' to the past ?

2010-12-29T16:35:00.002-05:00

Sometimes no matter how hard we resist bringing the past into our present, it is always there in a song, a dream, a thought, a look on someone else's face-- the idea to keep it in the past sounds effective but if it affected a soul so deep, the past or that special part of it will remain consistent throughout the indisviduals existence.

I have not officially said goodbye to a part of my past AND a very small portion of my being still feels strongly for the one I spent a decade plus with; howver, it is not feasible for him to walk the path we originally chose for he has been steered by a more valuable commodity option. So be it . . . that affect is behind and whats ahead is not known nor dictated by any means of action or in-action. The ball is in a neutral court at the moment and whoever picks it up first decides where it shall be launched next.

In the meantime, the year is winding down somewhat favorably and should improve by the end of next week, alot of hard work and satisfied customers will be pleased their having been featured on any one of the pages at our website EPN, was worth it. We got tons of responses that their traffic increased by 5% and that their profit margin widened by about 15-20% all because we link-exchanged.

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Have a fabulous NEW YEAR 2011

How about that 'relationship' you two share ?

2010-01-28T14:49:00.003-05:00

So did you leave the waste, resolved, undisputed baggage of the old kind of relationship you had in 2009, to start fresh in a new relationship with same person or other in 2010 ?

"I have" said the fair maiden who has always been more than second in the young rogues heart but less than exclusively in the young rogues spirit for the rogue is afraid of committment. They both decide, in a union stronger than any physical closeness, that terms must be defined and no pressure, just communication, must be exercised faithfully. The rogue plants the most delicate kiss upon the lips of the only fair maiden that can reign in his true court to what is desired between them and seals their pact with a firm gleam, staring into her shining eyes 'the windows to her soul' and promises (a rarity) this time to keep this quite precious between them ..."

When feeling like you must attack and defend, reveal and surrender to the intricate details of what strong communication brings to even the weakest of relationships between two fairly sentient individuals. It is difficult to 'open up' leaving your 'rawness' unprotected but that is what risk-taking is about; however the risk should be well-known before attempting to go in blindly so as not to point fingers at someone should the outcome NOT be the one you anticipated.

Is the relationship where it ought to be right now ? If not don't steer away from talking, just do it. The truth is far better received from deliverer than 'through the grape-vine' or under speculation or suspicion . . .

till next time

the enlightenment advisor

When the feeling extends past christmas eve . . .

2009-12-26T17:26:00.003-05:00

For many this time of year brought in new light to old situations and rejoicing was done hours after the holiest night of the year when biblically the child of god was born, had been dutifully celebrated. But what of the extension of that feeling in action and words from the heart that go well past christmas and on into the new year ? Looks good to me from where I am sitting as the extension of the night of profound love doled out its tests and remainded true when this day I saw your face bright, shiny and new ! Smiling to greet and make merry meet our hearts became one in a skip of their beat . . . I love you my special 'best time' !

Here are my virtual presents to you.

SheffieldsSherry
VERSUS
HarveysSherry

To MEDITATE on DOWNTIME-- orig composed May 19, 2008 10:17 PM EDT

2009-12-06T18:02:00.004-05:00

When I feel 'idle-time' is upon me, I embrace it and try to become as unified with that part of the collective consciousness as possible. What I mean by this is that I 'go into' something very deeply. Might it be an idea, a song, a chapter in a book I am reading, or a character observation from a movie or television show. I find the melding of images valuable. I take stock of my compartmentalized memories, sometimes abstractly but always with purpose, and use those to teach me during my 'downtime' about beating stress. A time where better learning can occur sort of like an ebb out into the flow of seducing calm, chaos gurgles down the drain.

When I close myself off from the rest of the egoic reality I am so used to being embroiled in and step away, I am freer. Freer to roam in unknown places, perhaps even into other dimensions if my imagination and belief is equally strong at the time of thoughtful departure.
A past-time I find soothing during 'idle-time' is cloud watching (weather-permitting) or star gazing; each provides a feeling of complete insignificance while being significant at the same time, our existence that is so overlooked or taken for granted. It is in these times I cherish my capacity for small worth when shackled exclusively to the ego but look to the 'idle-time' that proves my true growth of great potential time and time again !

What do you like to do in your 'down-time' ? What is your favorite past-time that offers a make-over of sorts and brings on the sense of accomplishment ?

Ever thought of this as an 'avenue' of self-exploration?

2009-12-04T14:39:00.004-05:00

Look at any table in your home, more specifically the most-used table surface. Not for dust but rather for evidence of how we may or may not organize the rest of our lives based on this mere observation. Okay the dining room table, living room table or better yet--the kitchen table.

What state is it in ? I don't mean the state address where you receive your mail at but what condition is the table in ? And I don't mean scratched, worn, shiny and high polished but what is all over it ? Is it neat with a simple vase in the middle or some equally appealing centerpiece? or maybe a simple place setting for six?

Or perhaps it is a little more cluttered, in a bit of a disarray with some unopened mail and a few papers maybe a newspaper ? Or is it a collection of unopened mail, opened mail, remotes for tv's, salt, pepper, doo-dads, knick knacks, writing instruments but almost never found any paper to write on ???? Your probably asking by now what the heck does this have to do with an 'avenue for self-exploration' ?

Right ?

Well the state of your most used piece of furniture, specifically in this case the table, has a mirrored reflection of who you are as far as organizing or not other facets of your life. This for some is hard to understand because they are so disprganized any sense-stirring article about organization escapes their mental construct. Ah, the state of the table defines the mental construct when perceived as an avenue of exploration. How is my life represented in the way I arrange my table or abuse its presence for a myriad of 'stuff'. Is my life, your life, the same as that table ?

Yes or no ?

What really is the 'intelligent design' ?

2009-11-07T21:18:00.006-05:00

For something unique on this transpersonal rode I am walking, I discovered dialogue with the unseen is rather important as well as prevalent. I don't mean just communicating with living and breathing people on a deep intellectual level, I am discussing communication with those that have passed over. I am writing about examples in nature that just are as they were intended but adapt with every passing moment.

I am convinced a residual energy that after the physical host dies, one that maintains the former host energy as close to what it left sticks around or moves around; therefore making it possible to demonstrate reactions to emotion, intend harm, wreak havoc in illogical ways, these being things only living humans should be able to do but not the dead can do it also.

All of these things are prime examples to me that existing is eternal. Just because the physical form dies, gets buried, and returns to dust, it does not imply that what left the body disguised as a vapor, a shadow, a mist, a knock or any out-of-the-ordinary thing that the dead should not be able to do happens- did permeate dimensions, proving 'life' is eternal.

But life changes in form, definition, character, and becomes part of which we do not understand nor maybe even cannot fathom for certain authoritative thinking patterns we are used to using keep us from this thought. In that change, unfortunately organized religion tends to be repsonisble in part for discouraging the thought of eternal life, something must give. Something in the cognitive construct of man, woman and child must be altered so we too, as the human race, may be placed in the greater positive affirmation of the cosmic intelligence and order and not be shunned for just staying human, stuck in the box, and habitually hoping for something better . . .

Do you understand what I am talking about ? (earth bound after death is okay . . .)
but would you not rather be void of fear knowing you can excel earths limitations and travel cosmically because energy flows wherever it can, or wants, or does, or doesn't ?

So, your wondering what does this all have to do with the intelligent design ? Well, as I headed into my mini-vacation away from product-selling and marketing, I went into my psyche that leaps out of the earthly prison my ego embraces and I soar back to a solar system conference hall where me and many other beings congregate to learn about ways the human race can move forward into peace through and from PEACE. But in order for anyone to take this need seriously someone has to come forward sounding as if they have little regard for organized religion or anything begining with the word federal, that would be me.

I see a real opening here to disclose that when I sleep I travel. I go back to ancient roots of a civilization way far away from this one and vastly different in cognitive constructs, behavior and attitude toward the unique race they are. As a human of the creator's intelligent design, I have failed in understanding for so long my purpose. There is a stirring in my soul, with the academic encouragement behind me in four years of baccalaureate studies, four more in masters plus four more thrown in for good measure totaling twelve years dedicated to personal research. I found myself and combine my efforts to comprehend the meaning of life and the continuity of existence.

Now I know and I cannot keep quiet about it anymore . . .

Cayce could appreciate creativity

2009-10-16T16:19:00.005-04:00

Epinion Review first, followed by Amazon purchase box, then our page dedicated to Edgar Cayce at bottom.
Enjoy !
Cayce and I walked with Jesus

The sleeping prophet awoke and found himself here at the Enlightenment-psych.net

Edgar Cayce was indeed a prophetic as well as clairvoyant, which synchronistically speaking, so are dad and I respectively. I had the wonderful opportunity of making an acquaintance with Cayce's spirit while standing at the A.R.E. Association for Research and Enlightenment building which used to be the old hospital for terminal illnesses and mental health disasters. It was very enlightening and I embraced instead of feared the visionary visit . . .

Edgar Cayce used to describe life as 'an Akashic record' skewn across time and space, as I began to see this analogy unfold when I took to creative writing at such an early age (I discovered it was a closed channel I was afraid to open till much later in life). The tapestry I wanted to weave had to be visually and textually appealing to not just emotions but sense of the spirit, the essence that flowed through the soul unfound in any body part, pineal gland or otherwise.

Edgar Cayce, born March 18, 1856 was a clairvoyant, like I found I am, without really knowing it and accepting it not till much later in life. Although he did slowly come to realize something was different about him. He had the religious roots nurtured by indoctrination at an early age when he discovered he really liked attending church. Liking the Disciples of Christ so much, by the age of twelve and well-versed in the religious ways, became a sexton. It was at the Old Liberty Church, in the empty pew where he became fascinated by parables and history of which the bible is full of.

He experienced his first awakening to a spiritual calling in which he believes a direct result of him loving Christ and his mission so devotedly, brought him there. His life is a million books taught from the personal transformation category, and reminds that a person can hear an echo of profound higher intellectual stimulation knowing like Cayce knew he knew.

I know too . . .
Cayce Lens

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Define faith: Are you strong enough in yours ?

2009-02-09T16:10:00.000-05:00

I realized true faith only a few short years ago in my own world despite having been indoctrinated into a religion of not my choice but my parents-- God-fearing of the Orthodox religion. It was during Sunday school that I often found conflict in the teachings of the Bible and what was happening in my own private world. If God was supposed to be all-good, all-knowing and always here, you know the omnipotent, omniscient, and omnipresent concept, than why was the one person who cherished my existence was taken from me.

Grandma Bucci's death was quite traumatizing for me as her and I developed a very strong connection of faith between each other, always being there for one another, and having proved faith is only an earthly element and does not repeat itself as having being necessary after leaving earth.

Faith is a cognitive construct shaped after birth and hopefully nurtured throughout life if a biblical life is one you wish to lead; but what if the Bible was never part of growing up for you and the word faith had never been defined. Would you still accept it without knowing what it was ?

just curious . . . till next time,
sharing the light,
Erica Hidvegi, the Enlightenment Advisor, M.A. Transpersonal Psychology Studies Counseling/ Author, Artist, Photographer & Freelancer

Grandma's death and after-life influence is further honored here-- the essay is My Spirt Guides Amidst Me Always page 15.

Educational reference Book--A mythic and egoic sojourn

2009-02-01T21:01:00.000-05:00

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2008-06-03T21:16:00.002-04:00

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2008-02-16T19:36:00.002-05:00

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We lose touch with our inner self

2006-07-05T17:39:00.000-04:00

Why on the journey of self-actualization do we forget the true meaning behind why we, personally, are in this place, at this time? Why do we allow the outer ego-self to take over and bury the real 'you' or 'me' inside? I contemplated on this and similar questions last night before falling into deep sleep around 4 am.

Here is what I discovered: The ego developing from early childhood starts to pay more attention to authority, clergy, parents, siblings, peers, etc and this child is bombarded with other peoples views, reactions, behaviors, attitudes etc that conversation with the self seems almost intangible. Too much 'noise' from the external factors that can help shape us but not necessarily make us, has us loosing touch with what is really important. Live closer to the spirit being you are rather than the ego-demon you have become and life will be that much simpler...unless you really love your ego ! and thats just psychological anyway.

The four standard spiritual endowments

2006-04-16T00:31:00.002-04:00

Every human being has all four spiritual gifts where each one plays an important role in your communication with self and Self. I thought it best to bring these into awareness of Womens Health because it is important to believe in what we have to offer for our own 'complete wellness' to take effect, before we can share the affect it has on our intrapersonal communicative abilities. The ego might hinder active healing but the soul will begin to mend wounds when belief is most profound and the injured part can no longer thrive. . .

THE PERSONAL GIFT OF PROPHECY: The first spiritual gift is Prophecy. A prophetic person is said to have “inner hunches or knowings” about what is going to happen.

THE PERSONAL GIFT OF CLAIRVOYANCE: People with the spiritual gift of Clairvoyance see in pictures. They visualize everything. When you are talking with them, it is important to paint them a picture of your experience. THE

PERSONAL GIFT OF CLAIRAUDIENCE: The Clairaudient person hears thoughts and ideas and is a natural leader. They realize that in order to be successful, a person must have all of the facts. By having the what, when, where and why of a project, they have the innate ability to keep things simple.

THE PERSONAL GIFT OF HEALING: A person with the special gift of Healing has the unique ability to help everyone feel good about themselves. Healers get a feeling impression for what needs to be done.

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Alternative Health Options for Women

2006-03-18T23:07:00.000-05:00

Does a cyst mean I'm at risk for ovarian cancer?- This question might come up when a cyst is detected and here is something I found to back up the concern.

Health- MSNBC.comtaken from : http://msnbc.msn.com/id/11700005/Studies have shown that cysts found prior to menopause are benign more than 90 percent of the time. Eight percent of women without any symptoms whatsoever, if given a pelvic exam or ultrasound, have been found to have cysts larger than 2.5 centimeters (or, a little over an inch) in diameter.

Now my cyst only one month ago detected, was 6.788cm and it is also benign. What is unusual is the size being so large and how I let myself ignore it for so long. Without another ultrasound done since first one on 2/1/06, though, I can feel a difference. This thing is slowly dissolving along the outer perimeter of my left ovary, I just sense it when I meditate or engage in deep aromatherapy during a hot bath. Remember I saw this thing bulging against my already swollen bladder cause four radiology technicians insisted I drink 36ozs of liquid without expelling before this darn procedure. Let me tell you I was ready to explode or at least void barrelfulls but I really only held 22ozs of liquid. That was all they needed to se my cyst make its Cecille B. DeMille debut on ultrasonic waves.

To make a long story short and informative . . . I am definitely staying on this product because it works ! Oh, how I wish I would of listened to certain individuals last year when they noticed a change in me, hormonally affected I'm sure, so that they would not have had to witness my irrational wrath when all this came to light around early January. Heck , hot flashes and night sweats in 2000 after a doctor-ordered D & C, should have clued me in that I was headed for a journey I was not the least bit prepared for. I resisted at first, I know. I acted out of line, moreso demanding than the ole man could take and I forced him, really, to bail on me. I left myself asking, "Can I handle this alone ?" Me, all by myself, nope never really have been, so this is a test. But I am blessed because my immediate family and very close friends are here with me whenever I need them and I have the courage to share this with the small part of the world that reads these blogs.

sharing the light

~enlightenedpsych2~

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Where can self improvement be found in the self first

2005-10-16T19:07:00.000-04:00

I will be in this 'happy' place again once I shrink the cyst to a tolerable, unnoticeable size that I can function in accordance with a natural rhythm my body, mind, spirit connection works best with . . . not against. see http://360.yahoo.com/affect_ive1 for details
~enlightenedpsych2~ 3-5-06

Self improvement starts with admitting and modifying the changeable aspects of ones life.

That part of the psyche which does not, except under unusual circumstances, intrude into awareness ~enlightenedpsych2~